Does Conversational Programming work?
Probably the most popular question I get! The Answer is YES. Conversational Programming does work. But not the way it has been portrayed by some quick money-making schemes on influence and definitely not the way it has been portrayed by so-called ‘NLP Trainers’ or ‘Hypnosis Wizards’. In fact, there is a big difference between getting a temporary response and getting a sustained response.
Before, I indulge you with this concept any further, let’s define what we here mean my ‘Conversational Programming’.
What is Conversational Programming?
Conversational Programming is where you give subtle suggestions in a conversation for the listener to engage in a specific activity or suggestions you give that induce a new way of thinking or belief in a person.
- You are having a conversation about music with your friend. And you plant a suggestion for your friend to get you coffee. And your friend has no idea that you have requested for coffee. But he gets up, walks, and brings you a coffee. And you didn’t even talk about coffee.
- Your friend is depressed about how far she has to travel to work. You are talking to her about animals. And the next day, she is driving to office but she feels different. She has discovered a new meaning for this travel that used to be so boring. She is listening to music and uses that time to prepare for the day ahead. And she has no idea that you helped her think differently but she is thanking you at the back of her head.
This, my friends, is the power of conversational programming.
How to Learn Conversational Programming
The trick to Master Conversational Programming is to recognize that it is NOT about Verbal Language alone.
Understanding what that means can possibly be your key to learning Conversational Programming.
Yes, Language CAN play a part, if you have heard of Milton Model. I teach that stuff as well. But you can be a powerful linguist with all the language patterns of a hypnotist baked in your muscle and yet not have the skills to make it work each time for you.
So, what does it take, to learn Conversational Programming?
It takes practice. Practice observing. A lot of observation. And practice learning to get into powerful mental states like the Zen. This is the key here. It is about you. It is about the person you are with that is most important to conversational programming. And there are ways you can train yourself to do this.
And I intend to teach in this blog some very useful methods for you to learn this. But before that you have to do something for me.
Do you have Conversational Programming Mastery?
Well, take a simple test. Say the following statement to a group of people. And if at least 4/10 scratch their nose, you pass the technical prerequisite to master conversational hypnosis. Otherwise, you are kidding yourself!
“When you start from Scratch, Your subconscious Knows how to make everything work for you, Now that’s the way it always works.”
Power of Conversational Programming
Now, as much as a powerful tool conversational programming is for changing beliefs, for helping people grow, and for your own personal success, I sometimes wonder the intention and purpose of people who ask me to teach them conversational hypnosis. Nevertheless, this is what I want you to do for me. I want you to share with me how you will use these skills. Conversational Hypnosis is like an ocean. And I like to show you exactly what you desire.
This is for anyone who wants to learn and master conversational programming. What you learn here will benefit you in every sphere of your life. And it does not matter if you have prior training or not. The content you are going to learn will take you to the next level of Conversational Hypnosis.
One aspect of NLP can be considered as Conversational Programming in Steroids.
So please fill in the comments below and share with me how you will use this!